by Marlene Bumgarner | Oct 12, 2015 | Aging, Community, Family
I went to my 50th high school reunion last weekend. For many people, the decision whether or not to go to their class reunion is excruciating. But I went and survived, and I’m alive and well to tell my story. And my message is this: You Should Go Even if...
by Marlene Bumgarner | Oct 7, 2015 | Family, Grandparenting, Writing
Last week “Why are you holding the owl, Grandma?” “I’m not sure. It seemed to leap into my hand.” “You are so silly, Grandma. It’s not real. Is it?” Good question. Conclusion “Am I real? What kind of question is...
by Marlene Bumgarner | Sep 30, 2015 | Family, Grandparenting, Writing
Today I find myself watching the owl carefully. Its head does not move, but its eyes follow me as I stand up and go to answer the door. I take it down from the mantel and take it with me. “Why are you holding the owl, Grandma?” “I’m not sure....
by Marlene Bumgarner | Sep 28, 2015 | Family, Writing
Taking a Detour I’ve decided to do something different this week. As I foolishly announced when I first began this blog last December, I am writing a novel. Well, was writing a novel. Between one thing and another, the manuscript has been untouched since last...
by Marlene Bumgarner | Sep 21, 2015 | Aging, Community, Family, Grandparenting
A Simple Solution or a Big Mistake? I’ve been in Seattle for a week helping a friend move into a cosy basement apartment in his daughter’s home. Recently, several of my friends have moved in with their adult children. Others have invited their sons and...